A question for christian women?

I'm a Christian and no way is a man going to walk ten paces in front of me. He will not tell me what I can do, where I can go or what I will wear. My Pastor is a female. Her husband is the song leader actually. As a team, they are the perfect pair. I was really surprised and impressed.I'm not feminist, just a woman living in what used to be a Man's World. Today, we know to treat each other and our family members, co workers, bosses and anyone we come into contact with respect. There are Baptist, Catholic, Methodist, Church of Christ...and more...all have women leaders in one area or the other have positions in the church and in their workplace